This is to all the girls out there waiting for your Mr. Perfect to arrive, treat you like a princess and take you into a palace full of love, a palace where you can roam around wearing royal empress clothes, a palace where you would no longer have to work, where you would have about ten cooks making different dishes for you, where you would have maids and servants doing all your work, you get to rule them all and oh! What is it that you have not imagined about that palace? It would be all about YOU.

I’m sorry but I will have to break your bubble. This world is not full of prince charming and fairy-tale-like palaces. Here people live in their small yet sweet homes and your Mr. Perfect is just going to be one of those people. There’s no harm in waiting for him but in the meanwhile you have so many better things to do like;

1)      Becoming a Doctor.

2)      Becoming a Child Specialist.

3)      Becoming a Vet.

4)      Becoming an Engineer.

5)      Becoming an Astronaut and landing on the Moon.

6)      Becoming a Pilot.

7)      Becoming a Cake Designer.

8)      Becoming a world famous Chef.

9)      Becoming a Celebrity.

10)   Becoming a Writer.

11)   Becoming a Fashion Designer.

12)   Becoming a C.E.O of a Multinational Company.

13)   Owning a Multinational Company yourself and running it like a career-oriented office woman.

(This woman right here is Marillyn Hewson, fourth most powerful businesswoman, owner of Lockheed Martin and she is 59 years of age.)

14)   Or just being a Free Bird.

Never underestimate yourself, you are not just beautiful outside but you have a whole lot of beauty hidden beneath; the beauty of your Talent. If you dream of something, it is you who has to reach out and make it come true, nobody is going to do that for you other than yourself.

Orby Cooper.